proudnb:

It’s ok to be single.

There are many ways to live a life filled with love, that doesn’t require the typical romantic, etc. relationship. Friends, family, or love of life itself are all at least as valuable.

And it certainly isn’t necessary to prove that you’re important as a nonbinary person (or anyone else).

proudnb:

Even though you’re nonbinary, you may spend most of your time in other communities, and that is completely fine.

However you live your life, you’ll always have a place in the nonbinary community as well.

proudnb:

Thinking about fashion and working on your appearance as a nonbinary person is not vanity.

It’s one of the most harmless, yet effective, methods of undermining a system that constantly works to erase us.

It is our way of breaking free, revealing truth, and finally being seen.

proudnb:

You don’t have to match any expectations or stereotypes about being nonbinary (or anything else for that matter).

You’ve cut your own path this far. Keep it up.

proudnb:

I hope that you find a career that suits your needs as a a unique nonbinary individual.

You might want to work as a cook, nurse, pilot, ironworker, teacher, etc. or any number of professions over your lifetime.

Whatever you choose (or just end up in) I hope you find as comfortable a place as you can there.

proudnb:

Pursue your chosen hobbies regardless of whatever binary gender associations might be attached to them.

Skills can be learned by people of any gender or lack thereof.

Gender stereotypes of all kinds deserve some breaking.

proudnb:

You can have an “imperfect” body and still be nonbinary.

Some nonbinary people have illnesses, chronic pain, diseases, scars, varying proportions, mobility differences, dietary restrictions, and so much more going on.

People exist in all sorts of ways and with all sorts of gender situations to accompany it.

It’s all completely natural.

proudnb:

Even if you’re somewhat safely out as nonbinary at your workplace, you can still change careers.

Maybe your current situation is pretty good for nonbinary people, or maybe it’s awful.

There are other possibilities out there, one way or another.

proudnb:

It’s unreasonable to assume that nearly 8 billion living human beings would all conform to the same system.

If you consider the vastness of our species across the past, present, and (hopefully) future, it’s no wonder that a simple idea like the gender binary is essentially meaningless.